Emotional Mastery & Self-Forgiveness
Life skills for managing anger, guilt, and shame. Get the 30/30 Reset.
Still mad about that thing from 2019? Replaying conversations where you definitely should have said something different?
Or maybe it's that email you sent when you were pissed off. The one where you cc'd everyone. The one your brain likes to remind you about at 3 AM, along with that time you snapped at the intern who was just trying to help.
Here's the fun part: your brain literally can't tell time when it comes to shame. That thing you did five years ago? Feels like it happened five minutes ago. Every. Single. Time.
The Professional Shame Spiral Nobody Talks About
You know what's weird? We'll discuss work anxiety all day long. Stress? Sure. Burnout? Absolutely. But nobody wants to admit they're still furious about that promotion they didn't get in 2021. Or that they feel guilty about leaving their last job even though it was killing them.
Professional emotions are messy. You're supposed to be logical, strategic, data-driven. Instead, you're secretly seething because Brad took credit for your idea in the all-hands meeting. Again.
And the guilt? Oh, the guilt. Missed your kid's recital for a client meeting that could've been an email. Threw a colleague under the bus to save your own ass. Still haven't responded to that LinkedIn message from your old mentor because... shame.
What Emergent Skills Actually Does About It
In 30 minutes, we teach you techniques that work when you're about to send that career-ending email or when shame is eating you alive at 2 AM.
Not "count to ten" bullshit. Not "practice gratitude." Real techniques for when your professional mask is slipping and you're about to do something you'll regret.
Like the somatic release that stops anger from hijacking your next meeting. Or the bilateral processing that actually helps your brain file away old shame (yes, even the cc-all incident). Or the quick reset that keeps you from rage-quitting on a random Tuesday.
Our AI coaches adapt to your specific triggers. Passive-aggressive emails make you see red? We'll work on that. Still guilty about that layoff you had to execute? We've got protocols for that exact scenario.
The Reality Check
You're not going to become some zen master who never gets pissed off. That's not the goal. The goal is to stop letting 2019 Jenny live rent-free in your head. To respond instead of react. To stop shame from making you play small.
Success looks like: sending the email tomorrow when you're calm instead of right now when you're not. Actually enjoying your current job instead of being haunted by the last one. Sleeping through the night without the greatest hits of your professional regrets.
Real Results
Turns out anger and shame are picky about what works.
What You'll Actually Learn
Yeah, we'll teach you the emergency brake for when you're about to flip a table (metaphorically... hopefully). But we also dig into why Jenny from 2019 still has this much power over you.
Your Emotional Trigger Map
First, we figure out what specifically sets you off. Maybe it's not all criticism - maybe it's just when someone questions your expertise. Or when they do it in front of others. We help you identify your professional landmines so you can see them coming.
The Pattern Recognition Work
Notice how your anger always follows the same script? Dismissive comment → jaw clench → sarcastic response → regret? Once you see your pattern, you can interrupt it. Way easier than trying to just "be professional."
Professional Emotion Granularity
"Upset" isn't specific enough. Are you humiliated? Betrayed? Disappointed? Righteously angry? When you can name it precisely, you can address it precisely. Our AI coach helps you build this vocabulary without making you feel like you're in therapy.
24/7 AI Processing Partner
Having a shame spiral about that thing you said in 2018? Open the app. Need to practice having a difficult conversation without losing your shit? AI's there. Want to work through old guilt without paying therapy prices? This is literally what it's for.
The Tools That Actually Work
For Anger:
- The 30-second nervous system reset that works even when you're seeing red
- Somatic release techniques that don't require a yoga mat
- Quick reframes for when Brad is being Brad again
For Guilt:
- Bilateral processing to help your brain actually file things as "done"
- Self-forgiveness protocols that don't feel like bullshit
- Practical amends without self-flagellation
For Shame:
- Shame interruption techniques for real-time spiral stopping
- Rewriting the story without toxic positivity
- Building shame resilience (yes, that's a thing)
Last week I used the anger reset right before responding to the most condescending email I've ever received. Sent a professional response instead of what I wanted to send. Still felt the anger, just didn't let it drive the bus.
Start With Whatever's Eating You
Pick your poison: the anger that's affecting your relationships, the guilt that's making you overcompensate, or the shame that's keeping you small.
If you're reading this while drafting your third version of that "professional but devastating" email, you need this. If you can't stop thinking about that thing you did last year, you definitely need this.
The Bottom Line
Your past mistakes don't deserve this much real estate in your brain. And Jenny from 2019? She's probably forgotten all about it.
Start the 30-Minute Reset Free
(yes, actually free. we know you're suspicious of anything that might help). If 30 minutes doesn’t unfreeze you, you’ll still walk away with one tool to use now.